Jan. 13, 2004 - 2:02 p.m. How does one get over someone, and still maintain their compassion for them? I'm still in a place where I love him, so when he's hurting or feels bad or is having a bad day, I still feel for him. It hurts me to know that he's not well or happy. How do I get over him without having to hate him? How do I get to a place where I am no longer IN love with him, but love him just the same, enough to care about him when he hurts, without hurting me in the process? I tend to harbour resentment for people who have hurt me, and made me feel low or small. I can't just get over them and be ok with things, I have to make them suffer, or want to make them suffer, which would only make me suffer anyway. How do I not do this? I want to be in a place where I have fond memories of him, and the painful things that have happened are just scars that have healed and that I've learned a lesson from, instead of gaping wounds that bleed everytime my heart beats. It must be possible. old bitching - random - new bitching Sounds Like: Feels Like: 1 fussbugets said... |
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