Anyway here are some things that I found that just struck small chords with me:

December 7, 2000

"I asked Chris last night if he ever thinks about what life would be like for him now if he were still single. Or if there were moments when he wished he were single. He said no, he probably wouldn't do anything at all. He'd have no reason to do anything. So having a girlfriend and a relationship gives him purpose, so to speak. Like something to work for, or work towards. Well. Wow. I have to say that both puts pressure on me and makes me feel really important at the same time. It's really nice to know that i nsome way I've given someone's life meaning. Maybe that's what love really is. When someone gives your life a goal or motivation to better yourself."

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