Comments:

juni - 2004-06-30 08:55:43
why are you even going? why are doing this to yourself? why would they even invite you? does Jana know that you have been in bed with her future husband? this kind of thing is not a sign of maturity, that you are all above things. it's insane, and incredibly cruel of Tromley to put you and Jana in this situation in the first place. He will always cheat on Jana, especially since she has let him know she will look the other way and allow it. You are so better off without him, what a rat! He is a womanizer and a cheat. Charm is a temporary thing and does not have a long run in relationships. It is used to suck in prey, and then only used occasionally to keep the now confused woman stuck there. I would not be going to this joke of a wedding, making him think he has you both sucked into this little game of his. We are in control of how we let people treat us. When we recognize this and take responsibility for it, we can then make better choices in relationships and how we allow them to go on. Sorry, I just had to say something. I hate seeing you do this to yourself, as I myself suffered from it for years, letting that ilk of men take advantage of me, not understanding what I was doing wrong. Not realizing that I was a person of value and deserved better treatment from men and other people in general. You are a beautiful, talented, intelligent woman. These kind of men do not deserve any place in your life, it's not the other way round, as they have you thinking.
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daisyblues - 2004-06-30 10:10:29
i'm sorry but i too agree with juni.....going to this wedding is only going to hurt you and why intentionly hurt yourself.there is a time in life that you decide to stop pleasing everyone around you and do what's best for you even if it seems like it's not the *nice* thing to do. you truly deserve more than that, you just have to start believing it!!so wear that new pretty dress out to dinner, go clubbing, anything else other than doing something that is going to rip your heart out....no one deserves for you to be hurt so that they can be happy, no one! you are the most *important * person in your own life, start treating yourself as that.
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lintpickle - 2004-06-30 11:17:48
Hey ladies, do keep in mind, this is NOT TROMLEY'S Wedding. It's Chris and Nonie's, and Nonie and Chris really really wants me to come, and I really want to be there for them. So this is an unselfish thing. I don't have to spend time with Tromley and Jana at this wedding. It's just seeing them is going to be tough.
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daisyblues - 2004-06-30 15:29:53
sorry, i thought you were going to their wedding....bit different now. no wonder you bought the great dress....she won't be likin' it much when she sees his eyes bulge out at the first look of you. dance the night away, laugh (even if you want to cry inside), show him/them how indifferent you are to their relationship and just plain have some good (or maybe a little naughty) old fashion fun!
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